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Writing on solitude, focus, and the spaces we work in.

Why overstimulation drains you, why you can't concentrate in an open-plan office, and what to do about it.

Cravings

There's a feeling under most of what's on this page, and it isn't quite a want. It's closer to a craving — the specific pull toward a door that isn't built yet, a room nobody's given you. We started noticing it in comment sections that had nothing to do with us: under someone else's backyard, someone else's psychology post, someone else's photo of a house in the trees. People aren't shy about naming it. They just don't usually get the room to go with it. Here's some of what they said, in their own words.

"My dream… among forest… that's really amazing."@parisa.m.sadeghi, on a house hidden in a Brazilian forest

"Goals!"@liminallemonade8, same post

"I like alone time like, 5–7 hours a day 😅"@melisasuede, on a post about the nervous system needing solitude

"40+ years later, the validation is sweet."@lbp78, on research about highly sensitive children

"It's not just a feature but a SUPERPOWER he's learning to harness... it can be a beautiful gift."@protectyoungeyes, about her son, same post

"Lucky you 😍"@rashi_choudhary2006, on a reader's home library corner

"WAITLIST."Nearly word for word, from at least four different people, under one post about needing alone time

"You don't have to work harder, you just have to actually have the experiences — so many public spaces are just void of anything."@davidtribby, on a study about people lingering less in public

This is what we're building for — not a theory, but this feeling, made into a floor plan. Below: what we've written ourselves, and what we've noticed other people already building for the same craving.

From the Founders

Two people who started this, writing in their own words.

From Chaos to Calm: The Secret to Thriving in an Overstimulated World

Have you ever wondered how urbanization and different spaces can impact our mental health?

Do any of these sound familiar?

You can't concentrate in an open-plan office, even on work you actually want to do.
You feel completely drained after a normal day — not from the work, from the environment.
Noise, fluorescent light, and constant interruption leave you irritable by mid-afternoon.
Your best thinking happens early in the morning, late at night, or at home — anywhere but the office.
You find yourself looking for somewhere quiet to sit, and there's nowhere to go.

If you said 'yes' to any of the above, you might be part of the "Highly Sensitive Person" tribe, where having a space to work, rest, and recharge in solitude is essential.

So what is Solitary Spaces doing?

In today's fast-paced world, overstimulation has become the norm, and many of us feel its toll on our well-being. At Solitary Spaces, we are dedicated to customizing environments specifically for Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) who need a haven from the noise.

But why is this necessary?

HSPs are among the most creative minds in the workplace, and their genuine input can transform a company's business. Their innovative ideas can drive new directions of profitability. But all of this can only happen when they get the RIGHT ENVIRONMENT.

Imagine an organization as a finely tuned orchestra. If one section is out of tune, the entire performance is affected.

Imagine an organization as a finely tuned orchestra, where each employee — whether in tech, teaching, or administration — plays a crucial role. If one section is out of tune, the entire performance is affected. At Solitary Spaces, we understand that just as every musician needs the right environment to excel, so do employees.

Our mission is to create tailored spaces that reduce sensory overload and cultivate a sense of calm. By enhancing these environments, we boost creativity, productivity, and overall work satisfaction — factors that ultimately drive better sales and profits.

Wondering if your workplace is the problem? If your team's best work keeps happening everywhere except the office you built for it, that's a design gap — not a discipline problem. Tell us about your building →

Do you really need Solitary Spaces?

Introverts make up roughly 30–40% of the population — yet most of the spaces we live and work in are built around the opposite assumption: that everyone recharges through people, noise, and constant activity. If you've ever wondered whether you're the exception, here are five questions worth sitting with.

01. Do I get irritated easily amidst a group?
02. Do I under-perform in a group?
03. Do I find it difficult to work in open spaces?
04. Am I irritated for no valid reason and feel like being alone?
05. Do I feel better working from home?

On being Highly Sensitive

If several of those landed, it's worth knowing this isn't a flaw to correct. Being highly sensitive — or simply introverted — is not a fault but a natural condition, like being a right-handed person. It's a trait, not a deficiency, and design has largely ignored it.

Solitude, in the right amount, isn't withdrawal — it's a catalyst. Some of the clearest thinking, and the most original creative work, happens in the quiet gap between social obligations, not inside them.

It is not a fault but a natural condition, like being a right-handed person.

This research — spanning architecture, philosophy, and psychology — kept returning to one practical number: most people who need solitary time need somewhere between one and two hours of it, regularly, to actually recharge. Not a retreat. Not a vacation. Just a space, held for them, close to where they already spend their day.

Hi, I'm Ankit Goglani. I'm an architect and musician who found Solitary Spaces through the medium of my architectural thesis.
Elsewhere

We didn't invent any of this, and as far as we know, none of the people below were thinking about us when they made it. These are separate answers — buildings, research, other people's photographs — that seem to have arrived at the same need from a different direction. We're noting the resemblance, not claiming the credit.

A House Built From Missing Pieces

In 2016, Steven Holl Architects completed a roughly 85-square-metre (918-square-foot) guest house and artist's studio on 28 acres of forest in Rhinebeck, New York. The land had originally been zoned for five suburban plots. The firm built one small house instead and left the rest of the woods standing.

The house isn't built up so much as carved out. Three spherical voids are cut through a single compressed volume — one opens into an entrance hall, one into a skylight over the living room, one into a curved window seat that looks straight into the trees. In one widely circulated image from the project, someone sits alone in that seat with a book, forest pressing close on both sides of the glass.

Nobody programmed a "reading room" into this house. Someone cut a circle out of a wall and pointed it at the forest. That's closer to how we think about solitude in a building — it rarely needs its own square footage. It needs one opening, placed well.

Our take: Holl's own language for this project is about voids and inner spatial energy, not solitude specifically — we don't know if that word ever came up in the studio. But it's hard to look at Covert, on our own campus, and not notice the same instinct: cut down instead of cut through. Maybe that's just what this kind of room tends to look like, wherever someone gets around to building it.

One Roof, Built to Hold Both

In 2019, Francis Kéré completed Xylem, a pavilion of about 200 square metres for the Tippet Rise Art Center in Fishtail, Montana — an open canopy of stacked pine logs on steel columns, set in a clearing near Grove Creek. The form is drawn from the toguna, a traditional gathering shelter from the Dogon villages of Kéré's native Burkina Faso.

What makes Xylem worth mentioning here isn't the material or the geometry — it's the brief. Kéré's own studio describes it as a place where visitors can gather and talk, or sit and meditate in solitude, inside the same roof, at the same time, with no wall built between the two.

That's the whole Solitary Spaces argument in one structure. You don't need a separate building for the people who want to talk and the people who want to think. You need one room honest enough to hold both, and let people choose their own distance from the center.

Our take: This is one of the few cases where the architect said it outright — Kéré's own studio describes Xylem as a place to gather or to sit and meditate in solitude, under one roof, no wall between the two. Sojourn, on our own campus, was built on the same premise. We just hadn't seen anyone else put it in quite so many words.

The House That Disappears

MAPA, the Uruguay- and Brazil-based studio, completed Minimod Curucaca in the Curucaca Valley of southern Brazil — a roughly 90-square-metre prefabricated house, built off-site and trucked nearly 900 kilometres to a clearing in the Atlantic forest. The walls are black cross-laminated timber; the roof is grassed over.

Seen from above, the building nearly vanishes — that's the point. MAPA describes it as a primitive retreat reinterpreted for the present, one meant to turn its own surroundings into what the studio calls "available landscape," rather than compete with them.

Most buildings that want to feel solitary reach for scale or distance — a long drive, a big site, a wall. Minimod does it with camouflage instead. It's a reminder that solitude-first architecture doesn't have to be large, expensive, or bespoke.

Our take: MAPA's own description talks about landscape and technology, not solitude — that reading is ours, not theirs. But Meek Abode, on our campus, works from a similar bet: that a building can protect someone's privacy by receding rather than announcing itself.

The Places We No Longer Stay

Researchers at MIT's Senseable City Lab used AI to compare footage of four public spaces in Boston, New York, and Philadelphia — 1980s film shot by the urbanist William Whyte, against video of the same spots today. Between 1980 and 2010, walking speed rose 15 per cent. The number of people stopping to linger fell by 14 per cent.

The study, published this year in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, doesn't blame any one cause — researchers point to gentrification, rising affluence, and phones, which have made it easy to skip the wait for a friend at a public landmark altogether. Project lead Carlo Ratti put it plainly: these spaces are working "more as a thoroughfare and less a space of encounter."

We'd add one more reading of the data. A place people no longer linger in isn't a place people have stopped needing — it's a place that stopped inviting them to stay. And lingering has to go somewhere. For a lot of people, it goes into a phone, mid-stride, which isn't rest.

Our take: This study isn't about us, or about Sojourn — it's about pedestrians in three American cities. But it's the first hard data we've seen for something we'd been assuming for a while: people don't stop lingering because they stopped wanting to. They stop when a space stops giving them a reason. View the original post →

Sensitivity, Measured

A 2025 study out of the University of Surrey followed a group of primary-school-aged children and found that the ones who felt things more deeply — the highly sensitive ones — were also better at recognizing emotion in others and navigating conflict. Organizational psychologist Adam Grant shared it with his followers with a line that's stuck with us: "sensitivity is not a flaw — it's a feature."

It's a small study, and it measures children, not architecture. But it lines up with the same correction we recently made to our own numbers: highly sensitive people aren't rare or broken. They're a real, measurable share of any group.

Most workplaces are still built on the opposite assumption — that sensitivity is a liability to manage around, not a capacity to design for. A quiet room isn't a concession to someone who's struggling. It might be where your most emotionally intelligent people do their best thinking.

Our take: This study is about children, not offices, and its authors aren't making any argument about architecture — that connection is ours, not theirs. We're drawing a line from their finding to our own number: 2–3% of people are highly sensitive, and the case for designing space around it. View the original post →

A Corner, Claimed

No architect designed this one. It's a reader's own armchair, pulled up against a wall of books, posted with a caption about habit, Sunday rain, and a to-be-read pile that never runs out.

We're including it here on purpose. Most of what we write about is buildings — zones, materials, floor plans. But the actual need behind all of it is smaller and older than any of that: one chair, positioned so the rest of the room falls away. Someone built this corner for themselves, out of furniture they already owned, in a house no architect ever touched.

That's the real test of a solitude-first space, and it applies at any scale — not whether it was designed by someone credentialed, but whether a person, given the choice, keeps coming back to sit in it.

Our take: We don't know who owns this room, and we're fairly sure no architect was involved. That's sort of the point — the one-seat, angled-away logic behind every cabin in Canton and Covert isn't something only a trained designer can get right. Sometimes a person just does it themselves, with furniture they already had.

One House, Two Moods

In 1984, Mexican architect Javier Senosiain completed Casa Orgánica outside Mexico City — a home shaped like a peanut shell and buried almost entirely under a green dune, so that from the outside, all you see is grass and trees. The plan is two large oval rooms joined by a low, narrow passage: one for the household to gather in, one for sleeping. Senosiain has described them simply as day and night.

What we keep coming back to is that division. Not a wall between social and solitary, but a passage — a physical transition you walk through to go from one mode to the other. You don't get thrown between them. You're moved.

Most buildings don't bother making that walk deliberate. A meeting room and a quiet room sit off the same corridor, behind the same kind of door. Casa Orgánica treats the shift itself as part of the architecture.

Our take: Senosiain talks about the house in terms of day and night, not solitude and company — that translation is ours, not his. But the passage between his two rooms does something we recognize: it turns the shift from one mode to the other into a deliberate walk, not just a door. Meek Abode tries for something similar, decades later, on a different continent.

The Room Without Walls

@zenform's caption calls the backyard "the most underestimated space in residential design" — sitting just beyond the back door, treated by most people as an afterthought. Their case: layer it the way a well-designed interior gets layered — planting, timber decking, stone, water, fire — and it stops being leftover space and starts being a room.

One line does a lot of work: a backyard designed with care gives you "a place to sit outside in the morning, to eat in the evening, to exist briefly without walls around you" — and that, they argue, isn't a luxury. It's a necessity most homes already have and haven't unlocked.

One slide in the post is just a photo of a willow tree, with a caption underneath: someone planted it in their own backyard specifically so they'd have somewhere to read and journal under it. No architect, no brief. Just a person who noticed what they needed and grew it.

Our take: Zenform's argument is about outdoor design generally, not solitude specifically — that emphasis is ours. But "a backyard is a room" is close to how we'd describe Covert or Canton: existing space, redefined by what it's actually for.

Your Nervous System Will Tell You

Dr. Nicole LePera, a clinical psychologist who posts as @the.holistic.psychologist to an audience of several million, published a carousel making a plain clinical case for solitude: the nervous system needs stillness, and most of us were never taught to recognize when it's asking for it. Her five signs — irritability, unexplained physical pain, avoiding calls and texts, an inability to sit still, disproportionate anger — read less like a self-help list and more like a diagnostic one.

The sharper point comes later in the post: solitude is stigmatized. It gets read as depressing, or as something people only do when nobody else is available. Her argument is the opposite — a regular, needed return to what she calls homeostasis, not a symptom of anything.

What's notable is where this went in the comments. Not questions, not skepticism — just a wave of people asking to be put on a waitlist, and one comment that admitted, half-joking, to needing five to seven hours of alone time a day.

Our take: LePera is writing about the nervous system, not architecture — we're the ones drawing the line to buildings. But "everyone's need for solitude is different," which she says directly in this post, is close to our own case for why one type of room was never going to be enough — which is the whole reason Holt Permute has four.

Like a Cockpit in an Airplane

For years, Kleon worked in spare bedrooms, garages, attics, lofts — and admits almost nothing beat the kitchen table. But there's a wife involved, and a marriage he wants to keep, so eventually the mess needed its own room. In 2022, after a year of planning and a 14-month build, he finished a poolside studio in his backyard: a box of about 200 square feet, windows on three sides, most of them facing north for the light.

His brief for the room, in his own words, was oddly specific: "I like high ceilings but not too big of a footprint... tucked in and surrounded by my stuff. Sort of like a cockpit in an airplane." Right under a window with a view, but small enough to feel held rather than exposed.

The best detail isn't architectural. During framing, before the insulation and drywall went in, he and his kids grabbed sharpies and drew all over the exposed paneling — knowing it would all get sealed over and disappear into the walls. The room holds that now, whether anyone remembers it's there or not.

Our take: Kleon never uses the word solitude here — he's writing about a studio, a marriage, and a very specific design brief. But "tucked in and surrounded by my stuff, like a cockpit" might be the plainest description we've read of what Canton and Covert are trying to do: small enough to hold you, without shutting anything out. Read the original post →

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